Hmmm, not feeling hurt by the memory of the offense, very apt indeed
Because our subsconscious plays scenes of hurts from the past even without seeking for our permission probably in reaction to a certain event that just happened now but but has a semblance to what occurred in the past
Hi Libra, you seem to be talking from an area of deep pain. If you have been hurt in the past, kindly dust yourself up, and leave it all in the past since you don't leave there any and try to maximize the whole future that has been placed before you with it innumerable potentials. I know it may take a while but you can definitely heal especially when you open up about it to your mentors and counsellors.
True indeed. Forgiving even when the offender doesn't ask for it or deserve it is the most powerful form of forgiveness and that takes unusual Level of deep courage drawn only from within to achieve.
You can't always prevent the people from the past from hurting you again. What if they are family, will you cast them into the abyss for causing you untold pains again?
Nope. Infact it's a double edged sword. In that it takes the offender to ask for forgiveness consciously and for the WRONGED to forgive him consciously also. Forgiveness maybe hard but it's definitely not impossible to practice or achieve.
Forgiveness maybe hard Sir but it's still achievable
The only kinds of hurt you can't forget are usually those that are very painful and devastating by nature. For example, your wife sleeping with someone else, this is usually very unforgivable and unforgettable as well.
Forgiveness maybe hard Sir but it's still achievable
The only kinds of hurt you can't forget are usually those that are very painful and devastating by nature. For example, your wife sleeping with someone else, this is usually very unforgivable and unforgettable as well.
My question is, CAN WE REALLY TRULY FORGET THE ACTS EVEN THOUGH WE FORGIVE?
What I mean is that we all have active memories that would definitely come alive, any time, any day.
However, I do feel that true forgiveness is not in exactly forgetting what has happened but it is not feeling hurt or pained by the memory of the offense.
There are also some offences that one should forgive but must stay far away from the offender in order to enjoy peace.
Just my opinion though.
Again, thanks for sharing this wonderful piece. More ink to your pen, sir.
Everyone has a history they wish to forget. Only the strong can forgive. Forgive even when the offender don't ask for it, but don't allow such person hurt you again.
I know we don't speak the same language and no one is forcing you to descend or ascend to my perspective right now
However I preach the concept of forgiveness with a pure and undefiled heart for those who have been hurt in the past to be liberated and free to live their precious lives Without being tied to the apron strings of the shadows of sometimes in the distant past.
With all due respect please, I never gave you a sour pear to taste. It actually sounds sour in your subsconscius taste buds because it doesn't align with your philosophy for existence. What I wrote is simply to purge the human heart that is guilty and make them to be more deliberately about releasing others who hurt them and so they can heal and maximize their Precious lives in the present to the best of their individual potentials without any invisible ties to the past.
Being forced to forgive….hmmm forcing keeps coming up. See you for good. We do t speak the same value. Bye bye. You just took an ounce of me again. Good bye.
The truth simply hitted you hard in the face and so you couldn't stomach them. I will admonish you as a friend to take your time when you are less busy, understand the hard truths passed in there, embrace them and put them to work, and you see your whole life traveling in a new and lightened dimension
Nope, not true at all. Cause most people ask for forgiveness from a sincere and a place of deep vulnerability. However if you see one trying to play hard after you have forgiven him, then break the bridges that hold you both together.
Thanks alot Miss Ehuna
It's not really that easy though to be frank
Hmmm, not feeling hurt by the memory of the offense, very apt indeed
Because our subsconscious plays scenes of hurts from the past even without seeking for our permission probably in reaction to a certain event that just happened now but but has a semblance to what occurred in the past
Hi Libra, you seem to be talking from an area of deep pain. If you have been hurt in the past, kindly dust yourself up, and leave it all in the past since you don't leave there any and try to maximize the whole future that has been placed before you with it innumerable potentials. I know it may take a while but you can definitely heal especially when you open up about it to your mentors and counsellors.
True indeed. Forgiving even when the offender doesn't ask for it or deserve it is the most powerful form of forgiveness and that takes unusual Level of deep courage drawn only from within to achieve.
You can't always prevent the people from the past from hurting you again. What if they are family, will you cast them into the abyss for causing you untold pains again?
Nope. Infact it's a double edged sword. In that it takes the offender to ask for forgiveness consciously and for the WRONGED to forgive him consciously also. Forgiveness maybe hard but it's definitely not impossible to practice or achieve.
to forgive naturally comes when u are a good person, but as a woman being, u can never forget. you know y?
because that person actually made a mark in ur life, negative one at for that matter.
it's like u telling me to forget who dis me good.( I can not)
so I will say forgetfulness is just a biblical statement.
Even God do not forget, he punishes u one way or another if u commit who then is me.
I can forgive but can not forget because once I see you, I will always remember u deeds, which is natural.
nice pics bro
Forgiveness maybe hard Sir but it's still achievable
The only kinds of hurt you can't forget are usually those that are very painful and devastating by nature. For example, your wife sleeping with someone else, this is usually very unforgivable and unforgettable as well.
Thanks alot for restacking Sir
Forgiveness is not easy but necessary.
True indeed and that's because it helps you far better than it does for the offender
Nice piece of work
Well-done sir 👏 As good as this sounds, the forgiveness part might work but can one truly forget?
Forgiveness maybe hard Sir but it's still achievable
The only kinds of hurt you can't forget are usually those that are very painful and devastating by nature. For example, your wife sleeping with someone else, this is usually very unforgivable and unforgettable as well.
A great piece you've got here, sir..
Hmm.. It's not as easy as we just read though.
My question is, CAN WE REALLY TRULY FORGET THE ACTS EVEN THOUGH WE FORGIVE?
What I mean is that we all have active memories that would definitely come alive, any time, any day.
However, I do feel that true forgiveness is not in exactly forgetting what has happened but it is not feeling hurt or pained by the memory of the offense.
There are also some offences that one should forgive but must stay far away from the offender in order to enjoy peace.
Just my opinion though.
Again, thanks for sharing this wonderful piece. More ink to your pen, sir.
Everyone has a history they wish to forget. Only the strong can forgive. Forgive even when the offender don't ask for it, but don't allow such person hurt you again.
Everyone has a history they wish to forget and only the strong can forgive.
Forgive even when the offender don't ask for it, but make sure you don't give the offender the slightest chance to hurt you again.
My moral standards are different. Sorry. We don’t speak the same language and you are not going to make me come down to your level. Please leave.
I know we don't speak the same language and no one is forcing you to descend or ascend to my perspective right now
However I preach the concept of forgiveness with a pure and undefiled heart for those who have been hurt in the past to be liberated and free to live their precious lives Without being tied to the apron strings of the shadows of sometimes in the distant past.
Can’t reason with you as you don’t accept responsibility. You just gave me a disgusting taste in my mouth. No thanks.
Really?
With all due respect please, I never gave you a sour pear to taste. It actually sounds sour in your subsconscius taste buds because it doesn't align with your philosophy for existence. What I wrote is simply to purge the human heart that is guilty and make them to be more deliberately about releasing others who hurt them and so they can heal and maximize their Precious lives in the present to the best of their individual potentials without any invisible ties to the past.
Being forced to forgive….hmmm forcing keeps coming up. See you for good. We do t speak the same value. Bye bye. You just took an ounce of me again. Good bye.
The truth simply hitted you hard in the face and so you couldn't stomach them. I will admonish you as a friend to take your time when you are less busy, understand the hard truths passed in there, embrace them and put them to work, and you see your whole life traveling in a new and lightened dimension
😂
You can laugh but please simply embrace the reality of forgiveness
Conniving manipulation
This is absolutely not true and you know that also
Different values.
The selfish abuse cycle so continues when someone is demanding forgiveness. You have to be in charge and not follow the perpetrators ideas.
Nope, not true at all. Cause most people ask for forgiveness from a sincere and a place of deep vulnerability. However if you see one trying to play hard after you have forgiven him, then break the bridges that hold you both together.