TALKING TO SOMEONE .

THE ART OF OPENING UP.

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Talking to someone is a powerful way of remolding and reliving our experiences. Having someone to recount our experiences to is a great form of therapy. It is highly emancipating. having someone to talk to can be so great a source of therapy for a bleeding soul. This process gives people the privilege to unleash the indescribable level of burden that maybe weighing them down. Having someone to open up to can save you from years of heart aches and pains the world has thrown at you. Talking to someone who you know is your friend and confidant can cover you and protect you from all invisible woes thrown at you by well wishing haters who cloak themselves in the after garment of friends in a place whose destination is society. It is a powerful form of connection to the desires of a person. All humans, no matter the class or strata yearns for this level of genuine connection with nothing being attached to it.

Because of the nature of man at creation,God made us to be social beings who are only able to solve issues when it has been opened up to other men with like minds. Talking to others is a powerful stress reliever on the human brain and the other components that makes one up. Talking to a friend when you have been deeply hurt can give you the required energy to keep striving and will gradually heal you off every hanging thread of hurt that was invisibly woven around your soul as at the time the incident in question took place.

Talking to someone with whom you connect deeply to at a personal level has a profound way of opening you up to the genuine pearls of relationship. A realm devoid of hypocrisy of any sort whatsoever. A realm of genuine intimacy. Always talk to someone you can trust in times of great distress as this maybe the quickest solution you could ever get pertaining to your situation. Don't ever find your self in an emotional quagmire of any sort and decide to shut yourself from the rest of the world. Don't forget that you are a minutely inseparable part of the world. Without you there would be no world and without the world there would be no you. So why choose to run away from the help of the world at the time you need it most just for the thought of people placing your story on WhatsApp and I.G after they may have helped salvage you from that situation. Don't give a damn about people's opinion and actions but rather stretch out a hand out and you never know who may come from the sheltering throng of the public and assist you into a brown new world you never conceived.

Learn to talk to someone today, and honestly it isn't difficult at all, rather it all begins with greeting that your neighbor that you haven't said HI to ever since you moved into your new apartment. Help them carry a box of groceries, give them a helping hand when what they carry appears bigger than themselves and in so doing, you,me and all of us are TALKING TO SOMEONE, thereby making the ecosystem a most hospitable planet for all.